Utilizing Temporary Marriage to Establish Mahram Bond with Friend's Wife
This practice allows man to be hosted without placing his friend's wife in the position of having to constantly observe strict hijab. The wife is no longer burdened by the constant need to maintain strict hijab in the presence of her husband's friend. This allows for more relaxed and natural social interactions, reducing the potential for awkwardness or discomfort. The wife can comfortably cook and prepare meals in the kitchen for the guest, bring them to the table, and participate in conversations with her now son-in-law (through the temporary marriage), with or without the presence of her husband. This allows for a more inclusive and relaxed domestic atmosphere.The removal of strict hijab restrictions allows for greater ease of movement for everyone within the house. The male guest can comfortably visit any part of the house without causing disruption or discomfort. The host's wife is no longer confined to specific areas or required to make elaborate arrangements to avoid crossing paths with the guest.
The host's wife can engage in direct interaction with her husband's friend, now considered her son-in-law through the temporary marriage. She can participate in conversations, offer hospitality, and generally contribute to the social atmosphere of the gathering. This can happen with or without the presence of her husband, further enhancing the sense of ease and naturalness.
Knowing that her husband's friend is now considered a Mahram eliminates any concerns about potential fitna (temptation) or societal judgment. The establishment of a Mahram relationship creates a sacred bond, akin to that of a brother and sister. This bond eliminates any potential for romantic or sexual attraction, as it is considered highly inappropriate and morally reprehensible.The Mahram relationship acts as a shield, protecting both individuals from the temptations that may arise from prolonged, unrestricted interaction. It sets clear boundaries and expectations, preventing any inappropriate thoughts or actions. The woman's interactiosn with husband's friend are now socially acceptable and morally upright. In many societies, there is a tendency to gossip and speculate about the nature of relationships between non-mahram men and women. By establishing a Mahram relationship, the wife can silence such rumors and avoid unnecessary social scrutiny.
Knowing that he is now considered a Mahram, he can feel confident that his interactions with the wife are morally permissible and socially acceptable. This eliminates any potential feelings of guilt or shame, allowing him to fully embrace the relationship without fear of judgment or condemnation.
The temporary marriage can solidify the friendship between the husband and his friend, elevating it to a deeper level of trust, loyalty, and familial connection. The man becomes more than just a friend; he becomes a son-in-law, a part of the family. Consequently, this newly established kinship has bestowed upon his friend the significant status of mahram, allowing him to see his wife unveiled and adorned, a privilege reserved for close family members and signifying a deep level of intimacy and protection.
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